in case you havnt read it yet, here is a part of the msn contract.
We consider your use of the Service, including the content of your communications, to be private. We do not routinely monitor your communications or disclose information about your communications to anyone. However, we may monitor your communications and disclose information about you, including the content of your communications, if we consider it necessary to: (1) comply with the law or to respond to legal process; (2) ensure your compliance with this contract; or (3) protect the rights, property, or interests of Microsoft, its employees, its customers, or the public.
Always use caution when giving out any personally identifiable information about yourself or your family.
This means that we are actually giving msn the power to moniter what we say.
what a bunch of spying.....
This beings me to another point. Is there actually any safe way of talking other than in person?