isn't that where you can select whether you want someone to help you (remote assistance) acros the net
and Remote desktop, so if you would like if, and so yes, which user can log on to your computer from the internet
(for this settings the router must forward the 3389 port, which it doesn't by default...
about those shares, have you or have you not found that checkbox with the text i mentioned earlier.. that use simple file sharing?!
because if you do NOT use simple file sharing, you can modify rights and permissions.
if you try to connect to the share, it simply sais permission denied?
you can try in this case to use windows explorer and type in your address bar \\"computername"\"sharename"
where computername is the name of you target computer, where you want to connect to..
sharename is just the name of the share which you made...
probably you will get a login box for that share.. try here the useraccount and password of the target computer